12 Months:
  • Announce the engagement
  • Arrange meeting between families
  • Set a tentative date
  • Determine budget and who will pay for what

  • 9 Months:
  • Interview and select wedding consultant
  • Interview and select photographer and videographer
  • Interview and select florist
  • Interview and select musicians
  • Interview and select caterer
  • Reserve ceremony and reception sites
  • Shop for gown

  • 6 Months:
  • Plan ceremony details including vows and decorations
  • Finalize guest list
  • Make guest accommodations
  • Order invitations and stationery
  • Gift registries
  • Meet with officiate to work out prenuptial requirements
  • Interview and select baker, put deposit on wedding cake
  • Order gown and headpiece

  • 4 Months:
  • Select ceremony music and readings
  • Apply for marriage license
  • Select wedding rings
  • Make honeymoon plans and apply for any needed visa/passports
  • Make reservations for rehearsal dinner
  • Select tailor for alterations
  • Plan activities for out-of-town guest

  • 2 Months:
  • Address and send invitations
  • Pick attire for groom and groomsmen and schedule fittings
  • Select and purchase attendant's gifts
  • Make bridesmaid's luncheon arrangements
  • Buy toasting glasses, ring pillows, cake knife, guest book, etc
  • Select and reserve transportation

  • 4 to 6 Weeks:
  • Plan guest seating arrangements
  • Make guest seating cards
  • Confirm ceremony with officiate
  • See printer about wedding programs
  • Check and update gift registries if needed
  • Meet with hair designer and makeup artist
  • Book day spa appointment for bridal party
  • Wedding announcement to newspaper
  • Write thank you notes for any gifts already received
  • Confirm guest accommodations
  • Schedule blood tests for marriage license

  • 1 Week (Last week!)
  • Confirm musicians and music selection
  • Confirm selections with florist
  • Confirm shot list with photographer
  • Confirm details with caterer
  • Confirm details with wedding party
  • Confirm rehearsal dinner
  • Obtain marriage license
  • Bridesmaid luncheon and gifts
  • Arrange to greet and transport guests
  • Bachelor / Bachelorette gifts
  • Hair and makeup for bride and bridesmaids
  • Have marriage license in hand
  • Say "I Do"